Most of today's children do not feel happy, feel heavy academic burden and pressure. Especially the child's adolescence, because faced with physical, mental, rapid changes, there is increasing academic pressure, will cause the child's psychological imbalance and complex psychological conflict, and even all sorts of undesirable consequences. According to a 22 cities in the survey, in fact, a variety of psychological problems of students who have 15% to 20%, forms the parent-child conflicts, partnerships tension, weariness and learning difficulties, test anxiety and other phenomena more. Most of these problems occur with self-control ability of the students, mostly from the heart always poured out of the various non-rational emotions. Indeed, fourteen-year-old child in a headache to many parents and teachers of treason. Dr Cheung said that this is one of the best age to form high EQ. Because adolescence is the golden age of a person is a person to adult critical period. Dr Cheung said that emotional intelligence is not innate, is mainly to foster interaction in the acquired together, the quickest and most effective way is mental training. In recent years, Dr. Chang EQ launched in the summer camp is designed through psychological education, mental training, focus on the development of non-intellectual factors of students, improve self-awareness and cognitive level of mental, learning emotional self control, to improve their inappropriate emotional behavior, let the children learn to "do the masters of their own emotions." To foster good values and beliefs with a rational view of life, enhance mental fitness, the laughter of children recover lost, healthy and happy to learn, live, and actively get good grades and skills to deal with the positive attitude kinds of pressures and challenges, and promote physical and mental health. Professor of parents is the child's emotional intelligence When parents understand the importance of emotional intelligence and EQ heard Dr Cheung open camp, they're very eager to want their children to participate in the hope that Dr. Chang can child be the person with high emotional intelligence. But Dr. Chang tells us, in fact, every parent can be a child's emotional intelligence coach. Summer camp organized by the EQ is not just her and the children interact, but also, and every parent interaction. Ceremony at the camp every time, she let each member of the small business awarded to the parents, "Professor EQ" letter of appointment - can not resign, not retire, to do life-long professor. "Parents have a high EQ, only children with high emotional intelligence" is Dr. Chang's distinctive ideas. So, she's emotional intelligence training for children, parents and children every day layout of a job. For example, she taught the children how to distinguish between humor, jokes and satire, ridicule, sarcasm, let them use the form, movement and language to the interpretation of humor, and then let the children be returned home to train the parents, the parents goes on a serious, even in the "Xiong Baba," the miserable face, humorous, witty up. She said that many parents just want their children brought up, and training them adults, but often ignore the emotional intelligence education, they rarely consider how their children happily brought up, how their children happily adults. Dr. Chang warned parents in particular, do not take emotional control children. For example, one day came home from school, the children said: "I had 59 points in math." If the opening scolded parents: "test is so bad that the face to come back?" This will let the children are rebellious: so fierce She in the end is not my real mother? Which the crisis is blamed fiercely nozzle child is, little interest in learning gone. In fact, in this case, the most important thing is when the child's consultant, to help children analyze problems, and encourage children's learning initiative, the child regain self-confidence. As long as interest in learning is still, scores can make it back. She had seen a group of children in such a small boy: grades mess, and no special skills. That teachers see the "poor health", "backward students." His mother was disappointed for him: you are so disappointing, my heart would break ... ... the last guy rubbing his mother's chest quickly, saying: "Mom, I get tape to stick your broken heart up." Dr Cheung said that this is a high EQ child, if her investments, the child most worthy of investment. Dr Cheung said that parents, in addition to the child's academic performance and specialty care capacity, the "to do the child's emotional intelligence coach" is also a sacred duty talent.

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